DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner’s son has told me that she was gaslighting me and cheating for months.
I even had a vasectomy because that’s what she wanted. I feel so betrayed.
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We met two years ago and I thought I had struck gold with this stunning 40-year-old woman.
I am 46. She was kind and caring and couldn’t do enough for me.
Six months on it changed. She criticised everything I did around the house, ranted about past mistakes and accused me of neglecting my son.
He has a career and his own home and we are fine. She said her son hated me – which I now know to be lies.
I felt bullied but took it on the chin. Then after one almighty row I walked out.
She ran after me for a few days, shedding tears and saying she wanted me back.
Then she suddenly stopped calling and didn’t answer my texts.
I then got a call from her son saying I should know the truth.
She had met another guy and had been seeing him for months behind my back.
I am struggling to cope. I feel betrayed and lied to – and she always said she hated liars.
I am worried whether I will ever meet someone again.
I thought we had a near-perfect relationship but it has crumbled away and with it all my confidence.
DEIDRE SAYS: You could not have known at the start that your ex has a Jekyll and Hyde personality.
She was emotionally abusive and at least you can be confident you are better off free from her.
You can find support through the Men’s Advice Line (mensadviceline.org.uk, 0808 801 0327).
I hope you will meet someone again soon but that you’ll spot any warning signs before you suffer so much hurt.
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