Learning about my girlfriend's sexual past has made me feel insecure

DEAR DEIDRE: HEARING about my new girlfriend’s past sexual exploits has made me feel unexpectedly jealous.

She has been so much more adventurous than me and I don’t feel I can compete.

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Now I worry she’ll think I am inexperienced and rubbish in bed.

I’m 38 and she’s 36. We have been talking online for several months and have been on one date.

We kissed and I was hoping we might end up in the bedroom soon, so I brought our late-night chat round to our past sexual experiences.

She confessed that she has had a lot of lovers and once, at college, even took part in a threesome.

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That is not something she is proud of and she says she has no desire to do it again.

I was glad she was honest but I was also shocked and haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. I feel strangely sad.

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Maybe you are feeling sad because you regret not experimenting more.

Or perhaps you are disappointed she has done this, even though on some level the idea excites you.


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